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School
I found an article about the scholastic experience that summarizes
the condition precisely. Here is an excerpt:
Schools very often, and by necessity, teach that success
comes by mastering not the facts, but the system. "Will
it be on the test?" you ask. If the answer is no, who
cares?
School also teaches you that your success is a function of
what other people do. If you do better on your exams than
others do, you are better. You are worse if you do worse.
And school teaches you, ever so subtly, that life is measured
in annual increments, with rewards and punishments coming
at predictable times. Each year, if all goes well, you move
up to the next level.
A lesson only thoughtful living can teach you: Success--and
happiness--is about how you do what you do, and how you are
with the people you know.
True freedom is more complex. It is the exhilaration that
comes with making a commitment and making good on it. It's
finding the balance between believing in something, retaining
skepticism, and learning how to be productive even when you
are uncertain. It is staying flexible but also having a spine.
Few dreams come true without taking risks. You have to risk
failure and embarrassment. You have to risk making a mistake.
And you have to risk the fact that you might spend time working
toward something and end up someplace else altogether.
But along the way, you will be doing the most important thing
of all: continuing to learn.
The more you challenge your mind, just for the sake of learning
something new, the more easily you will find yourself feeling
like you do at graduation: like life is just beginning, like
you can do anything, and like you're the luckiest person in
the world.

San
Jose's Turn
This week, I was back in San Jose for that city's Gay Pride
Party In the Park. It was a day of dancing and Divas with
sunshine, men and merriment...
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